My husband is mad because I’m not good at cleaning.
I’m not good at cleaning and he doesn’t understand. He comes from a home with a stay at home mom and a maid. He is from India and that is common. I come from a home with a hoarder. He has seen my grandmother’s, who raised me, home. He is disgusted by it. She doesn’t hoard trash, but she holds paper, collectibles, toys, and clothes (￼ I should let you know these are not clothes for her. These are clothes that she likes that she sees that yard sales and decides to buy even though it may be for a baby or some thing of that sort.). I am not nearly as bad as her. I’m normal person messy. I just don’t know how to stay clean. He tells me to clean as I go. I have no idea how to do that. It doesn’t even occur to me.￼ Any helpful advice on staying tidy would be appreciated.