issues in relationship with spouse or S/O?
Been married 22.5 years. Last 6 years has been very hard. Before being diagnosed and receiving meds, I was so “busy” every second of every day that I had zero down time. Vicious cycle started with the comparison game. I worked all day doing things and he was “piddling” around and not helping and that meant that I worked harder… but looking back I see that I was doing a gazillion things but I was rarely finishing them and he was doing one thing through completion. It created resentment of EPIC proportions in our marriage and we suffered total breakdown of communication! Anger, resentment and frustration were DAILY feelings. The longer it went on, the worse it got. Neither of us knew why I was so angry but we were headed for divorce! We are slowly getting back on track But I’m not sure it will ever be the same again. I hope we can one day return to where we were before. Anyone else see the effects of undiagnosed ADHD almost ruin your relationship?