Routine (Asd + Adhd)

I’m trying to stick to a routine today and I’m already failing :,) I should be in the shower rn but for some reason while checking off another point from the to do list I got stuck here, reading comments and relating to y’all :0 while I don’t mind that yet, I know it will be a big struggle at the end of the day :( Expect for that, I made a routine chart and I just keep rearranging it so it also makes sense to my adhd side, my autistic side wants it to be logically, first showering, then brushing teeth, and then getting dressed but my adhd side has another logic, doing everything first that is not originally on my to do list so i don’t forget. So basically I’m just running around the house, doing manyyyyy tiny tasks to the point where I feel overwhelmed and can’t complete my actual tasks anymore *silent inner scream* wish me luck :D