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saintshoggoth
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4 months ago

I’m so bad at time

I’m going out of town to visit family soon, gonna go on a plane for the first time since I was a lil kid, no idea what that entails these days so I need to do my research and also pack. It always feels like big event plans are far off in the future but I’m pretty sure we leave the day after tomorrow, and I have prepared in no way whatsoever yet cause it was a future event not a now event. 😅 Also, I say pretty sure, cause I’m not actually positive what the plans are, and now I need to call my dad and find out. If I don’t write down every important detail I will forget them the majority of the time.

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emiwemy
3mo

Don’t think of urself as less than for not packing early!! We do best when there is a close deadline so take advantage of that and embrace it!! You won’t be able to pack perfectly for any trip so just do your best and the rest will work out. Your meeting your family anyways so if anything doesn’t get packed that you forgot you can ask them or go to a store nearby!

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stefka13x
3mo

So my own experience, I stopped preplanning things that would stress me out and cause anxiety. I had to go into NYC by myself for work from NJ about an hour away. All I did was research the train time and the distance the office was from the train station which was about a mile, not even the location away. I winged everything else and no anxiety for me. I'm not saying do that, lol but for me, not having all that time beforehand to just overthink about how things can go the wrong left me with 0 anxiety and an extremely successful day alone in big bad New York. Didn't give myself time to think and only a few seconds to make a decision. Kinda do that with everything now

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