Sometimes I have an aha moment and I am excited about it but then when I tell others they say that was obvious. It feels like they are saying I’m stupid. For example, my partner and I have struggled to find a bedspread that we both like. We’ve gone through several different ones over 5 years. Granted, we didn’t make it a priority. Now that I’m focusing more on self care, I was determined to find one we both like and we finally did..a beautiful white bed set. When I told my mom, she said she thought it was strange it took so long to come to that conclusion. For me, it’s the little things that sometimes seem like the hardest thing ever.