I personally would keep bringing them up until he agrees, but I’m just petty like that. Also tell him that you won’t stop bringing it up until it happens

So with you on this one. I get all shame at what I’m not doing well house and finance wise. But the things I find important, like quality time together, get pushed off because the “important” stuff isn’t done.

What for example? Changes around your home? Trip ideas to spend days off? Products you wish to buy?

My mind is spinning. I want my husband to say we can do these things I want to do but he doesn't want to. I feel like sometimes he has the final say in them. 

NUMO ADHDNUMO
ADHD

Thoughts.