
Friends
How do you guys go about making new friends. Online or in person?
How do you guys go about making new friends. Online or in person?
I don’t like people or making friends so I stick to family and 1 close friend that’s gets my “icky”
A lot of people don’t understand my ADHD quirks. Like in a conversation I am not trying to one up your story with my story, but more trying to let you know I was actually listening to what you were saying. That makes making new friends difficult when they are not open to your quirks, but also friendships are time-consuming and with kids in sports and a full-time job is not what I have a lot of. I have a few close friends that understand me, and the rest are more acquaintances
The closest I have to “friends” these days is parents of my kids friends. The last friend I made that I actively talk to, thanks to ADHD, was made in the 6th grade! She has ADHD too, so you should listen to those conversations, you’d need a map to follow along because we WILL bounce around and come back to finish EVERY. SINGLE. ONE. OF. OUR. CONVERSATIONS. Lol. We just HAVE TO! Otherwise it will bug us.
Usually at work but you can find some good ones online 🙃