So my baby daddy didn’t turn up to our sons first birthday party on the weekend. At first I was Totally devastated and started crying every time I thought about it. Now I’m just angry but I want to talk to him about it with our fighting. But confrontation is not my thing… I mix up my words or can’t think of the right words, then get flustered and if he was to not take responsibility and gets defensive or abusive then I know that I will prob end up saying something I will regret out of pure frustration. Does anyone else have problems dealing with disappointment and arguments?