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quirkydelight
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3 months ago

Out of sight, out of mind?

Does anyone else struggle with staying in touch with people they don't "have" to see on a daily basis because of work/hobbies/...? I tend to make friends quite easily and get deeply connected with some of them, but as soon as I or they relocate or switch routines, I can't seem to stay in touch with them, even though I love them. Sometimes, one of them randomly pops up in my mind, so I send a message, but then I forget to answer when they respond.

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2mo

I can highly relate to your writing, and for me if they reach out when im in a bad period, i tend to unwilling ghosting them or i get back to it when im okay again, but then the guilt makes it impossible.

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2mo

I can highly relate to your writing

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keepgoing
2mo

My mother has bad intentions and verbally attacks my family. My siblings live away from her and that’s their favorite saying. I’ve never felt more alone.

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ciceropwyll
2mo

Object permanence applies to people! It’s frustrating trying to explain to people this is a real thing we struggle with and not just being avoidant or inconsiderate.

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